i want you to feel confident, not scared
when your toddler loses their sh*t.
big feelings is a different way of seeing toddlerhood, and the strategies you need to make it something enjoyable for both of you
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the past 10 years of what i’ve felt, learned, and stumbled over while living life with toddlers and their big feelings. and what has helped me grow the most
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the difference between IQ and EQ, and the research on what toddlers need for healthy emotional development
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why i don’t believe scripts are the answer, and i will teach you to see what is really going on instead of giving you another script that doesn’t work in real life when you need to do something
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i teach you why your toddler acts like that… and what is going on in their little brain during this time in their life. it’s magical, actually
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notes from the past few years i’ve spent with these toddlers, and what they need that is different from other toddlers
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meltdowns are not the same thing as tantrums, and there are two different types of tantrums (no one tells moms that). when you respond the same way or use the same script, things get out of control quick. i teach you ow to see which one you are dealing with, and strategies to respond and give your toddler what they need in that moment.
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boundaries are not just about saying no. i guide you in choosing your family values, and creating the ones that are right for your family. i also show you how to use boundaries to protect your nervous system throughout the day (so you are not falling apart or crying while googling after bedtime)
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i teach you how to hold a boundary without losing your sanity, and in the most emotionally healthy way to keep a good relationship with your toddler. there are many win-wins in toddlerhood if we know how to look for them
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we go through how to change a behavior, how to have realistic expectations by age and stage of toddlerhood, and what is normal vs what is concerning when it comes to common behaviors
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a short practice to learn personalized ways of regulating your nervous system, even while your toddler is in the room
"as a new mom, i remember the moment i was introduced to the concept of feelosophy, and immediately knew it was going to be instrumental in my parenting."
— Cait H."it was such a relief knowing someone who actually gets childhood development was breaking it down in ways i could actually use."
— Cait H."kimberlin gave me the confidence i was missing. i finally understand what's actually happening developmentally with my daughter and i can meet her where she's at instead of where i think she should be."
— Cait H."i trust feelosophy completely. it's the first thing i recommend to every mom friend who's struggling."
— Cait H.TODDLER MOMS ARE THE SH*T
you will grow more emotionally in this season than you ever have in your life.
but i don't want you to just survive this season. i want you to realize the ooey, gooey, juicy goodness of it.
i want you to enjoy your toddler instead of being scared about the next tantrum.
i want you to love watching this little child that you birthed from your own body grow into a wonderful human, and to feel good about how you're shaping that.
all of it is possible.